Well, my gut instinct is that it's none of their business and, if they want the two of you to visit as a couple, they can learn to live with it!

But I know it's not always that easy...
Maybe there's a hidden agenda? Maybe they're worried you'll be a "bad influence" on younger relatives or something? Or maybe they just don't know how to cater for you? Sling some of those crazy tofu steaks on the barbie, and crack open some stubbies
