Hi ccvegan, I’ve given your post some careful thought
First, there is no “everyone else” – just me making these comments. I do not speak for the rest of the community, and I have a biased agenda

Plus, I am under no obligation to be supportive: this is a discussion board, and I am discussing!
I disagree that I am skirting around the issue.
Being vegan is often a lifestyle, which usually centres on a deep respect for animals and the environment, and a desire to stop unnecessary cruelty. Most vegans are also very concerned about their health and well-being.
I am not saying that having botox is wrong or right. I am saying that it doesn't make sense, and when things don't make sense we need to discuss them!
1) it doesn’t make sense [to me] to disrespect and be cruel to your own body, while you campaign to protect other animals.
2) it doesn't make sense [to me] to worry about the toxins in your food, and then inject toxins into your own face!
If you are prepared to stand up against society for animals and the environment, why aren’t you prepared to stand up for yourself?
To use your example of the gay catholic, of course his mother should discuss all the implications of his lifestyle with him: there is a mid-ground where she can be supportive and discuss the whole issue (including what she believes God will think - I imagine this would be important to a young catholic man)
Being gay isn’t just about sex, and being vegan isn’t just about whether something is animal-free. It is wise to think about why you choose to live this way, and what ultimately makes you happy and fulfilled.
Evut, I am sure you are really pretty and lovely and have lots to offer the world – everybody gets wrinkles, and they are nothing to be scared of

Please don’t end up looking like Cher or Jackie Stallone!
